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Saturday, August 2, 2014

Guarding our kids against being a Delilah

This is my Sunday School lesson tomorrow so I thought I would share...

Samson, Delilah, and the World
The Lord has a specific plan for your life, but we can alter that plan by the decisions and choices we make and letting the world come between us and the Lord!
Judges ch 14-16
*Samson had a downfall – WOMEN
*Samson had a problem – WOMEN
*Samon’s parent allowed him to give in to his indulgences (ch 14:3, 5, 7)

*Woman #1
- Ch 14:7 – a wife of the Philistines - these were the people who had them captured; so these were the enemy
-A lot happened with this woman, while on his way to see her Samson killed a lion with his bare hands (he wasn’t supposed to touch anything dead) and then later on when he went to see her again he noticed a bee hive inside the carcass of the lion.  He got the honey and not only did he eat it, he gave it to his parents!  IT WAS UNCLEAN!

*Our sins can led others around us to sin!  His parents unwittingly broke the law and it was Samson’s fault!  But if they had put their foot down and said no, none of that would have happened.

-They had a feast for his father to meet his wife and Samson told the guys that came to the feast a riddle (about him killing the lion) and told them that if they could figure it out that he would give them thirty sheets and thirty changes of clothes (v. 12)
-They couldn’t figure it out so they threatened his wife that they would kill her family.  So she set out to find out the answer to the riddle.  V. 16-17 – After 7 days she wore Samson down and he told her the answer.
-He knew that she had told them so he killed 30 of those men.  Her father, while Samson was gone, gave her to a “friend” of Samson’s.  V 20 says a companion who he had “USED” as a friend (don't just use people to make them your friend).
-Samson killed a bunch of Phillisitines after all of that happened with his wife. And became a judge in Israel for 20 years.

*Woman #2
Ch 16:1 – a harlot (one night stand)
-After he left her the men of that city tried to kill him, more trouble!

*Woman #3
Ch 16:4 – Delilah (he fell in love)
-Delilah asked Samson 4 times to tell him where his strength came from in ch 16: 7, 11, 13, 17 – Finally in v 17 he told her. (READ V. 16-17) She had worn him down, but I also believe that he knew she was going to cut his hair!
-WHY WOULD HE TELL HER? I mean she had tried everything that he had said up to this point.  He was so infatuated with her that he was blind to the truth.  He didn’t want to see that she meant him harm.  He was out of touch with the Lord and He believed that he could handle the situation.  He thought his strength could get him through.  That’s what happens to us. We forget where our strength comes from.  We start thinking we can do everything by ourselves and we don’t need any help from the Lord! V. 20

 *Something to think about
*Every time Samson starts fooling around with the opposite sex he gets in trouble!  He lets them come between him and his relationship with the Lord.
*Delilah wore Samson down, don’t let the world wear you down!  Don’t let the opposite sex wear you down to give in to their desires and wants!
*He gave Delilah his heart!  Don’t give your heart away!  It will get you in trouble!  Let the Lord have your heart, not only for Salvation, but after you get saved, make Him your #1 guy and I promise He will lead you to the right person and in the right direction!

*The rest of the story…
-We all know the story, the Phillistines took Samson and enslaved him.  
-They forgot about his hair and it grew, they were having a feast to one of their gods and wanted to make fun of Samson, they brought him out and he asked a child to help him lean on the pillars of the house, he prayed (v.28) and acknowledged his need for the Lord’s strength and pushed on the pillars of the house, it fell down killing about 3000 people.

*Something else to think about
*Do you want to live your whole life chasing after things that aren’t good for you?
*Samson died right with the Lord, I don’t believe the Lord would have allowed him his final request if he hadn’t been right with Him, but think about what Samson could have done with his life if he had just followed the Lord.
*The wiles of the world wore him down, the opposite sex for him, what is it for you?  Boys, money, clothes, acceptance, beauty...
*We have to beware of how we present ourselves to the world and the opposite sex, we don’t want to be that person who leads someone astray or hinders their relationship with the Lord by enticing them. 

*So don’t be a Delilah and lead the opposite sex astray with your enticements!

*And don’t be a Samson and think you can make it without the strength of the Lord!

Here's another blog that is WONDERFUL!!!  Here are a couple of her posts that are related to this topic.

http://www.girldefined.com/christian-girls-post-seductive-selfies

http://www.girldefined.com/guys-speak-girls-showing-cleavage

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